My Goals: IN ONE YEAR Learn to EAT, PRAY, LOVE ... My Way*


1) Find Health and Strength for Me and my Family (Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually).

2) Have a Love Affair and Long-Lasting Friendship with my EC (Eternal Companion).

3) Be Available for My Children through their Triumphs and their Trials.


*As I followed Elizabeth Gilbert's journey through "Eat, Pray, Love" and now as you follow me on my journey, perhaps a world of possibilities will open up for you too. Where do you want to go? Who do you want to be? Me? I'd just like to learn to be my loving, happy self and live long and healthy enough to enjoy the outcome. And you? I encourage you to challenge yourself. What would you like to do next? What direction are you going? Our talents and uniqueness bless our world ... and someone is always watching, always following in our footsteps. My prayer is that our footsteps may always be worth following.

Monday, April 11, 2011

265 Days to Go ~ The Clocks Around Us



Tick. Tock. Tick. Tock. That's how the clocks used to sound when I was a child. They measured out the beat of the day. On the hour, each and every hour, even throughout the night, they'd chime the time dismissing the passing hour and welcoming the new. Tick. Tock. Tick. Tock. Bong. Bong. Bong.

We knew when to wake, when to go the school, when to return, when to eat supper and when to go to bed by the chiming of the clocks around us. It was not a noisy, annoying sound, but a familiar, constant sound.

Nowadays, we have technology that brings us the silence of digital watches. Even my wristwatch, which is not digital, is quiet. Its mechanisms are muted as if by magic. The digital clocks brightly glare at us from across the rooms and through the nights on our Super 5000 Go-Underwater sport watches. We all look to tell the time.

I liked it better when we listened to tell the time. I wish for those simpler days for other reasons as well.

Back then we had schedules to follow. We knew where to be and when.

Now, in contrast, we have schedules to follow. Many, many schedules to follow. We overbook and overlook events on a regular basis. We do not always know where to be and when. On top of  that, we have the demands that others place on us in daily life: school, work, motherhood, fatherhood, church duties, community duties, kids activities, social activities... and... and... 

We are tripping all over ourselves and our kids and our neighbors, not to mention the toys on the steps leading to the front door and the pile of clean laundry growing off the sofa and onto the living room floor. Our hands, of course, are filled with books and papers just carried in from the car and no matter how hard we try to kick the clean clothes aside, the more entangled our legs become and our balance is thrown off. Our children busting out in laughter at the whole debacle.

Tick. Tock. Tick. Tock. Slow that all down. Schedule less. Clear the room. Try out the sofa. Read a book. In all the things you have to do in the day, do you fit into the schedule too? 

Does your day fly by you as your schedules do, as the digital clock does, silently marking the minutes of your life in past tense? The clocks around us know the tally, but we seem to rarely notice they're counting. After all, we are in charge ~ not the clocks.

Right.

7 comments:

  1. So true. We all need to slow down and be junk our lives!

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  2. "I liked it better when we listened to tell the time. I wish for those simpler days for other reasons as well." Love this. So very true. I enjoy the tic-tocking of classic clocks as well- something soothing about them.

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  3. Dear Lauri,

    As you know i'm following a class of mindfullness. One of the things you learn the first time is to take time to breath. How do you breath? Slowly ore fast? What thus it feel like? Then you need to focus on what you are feeling emotianaly ore experience pain and describe that to your self so it has a name. And than focus on your breathing again.That will bring you back in time. Do this exercise for three minutes a day and you will be able to release the stress your feeling. Also, ask yourself, is it realy nessasary (don't know if the spelling is right) that you do all the task on your to do list. Can't some things wait till tomorrow? Do them tomorrow. If you have a big task to do, split them up in three smaller things and you see that you can get things done. They are only thoughts that tell you to do all these things on your list,but that's it, they are only thoughts, not facts. Thus the world stop turning if you don't get everything done on your list? The answer is no, the world keeps turning, so why not relax? And there is nothing wrong with asking for some help to get some things done. It's called delegating. Maybe you wanna try it sometime? It helped me a lot.
    Hope this comment will you a bit.

    Love Thea

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  4. Hi where possible buy your picture old clock? Thanks your answer

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